I moved to the US for my husband's job but it didn't feel like home. We took a risk and moved to Canada.
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Shrutinder Kaur was 23 when she moved to the US, but she left for Canada roughly four years later. Courtesy of Shrutinder Kaur Shrutinder Kaur went to the US as the dependent on her husband's visa. She couldn't work on her visa, and at times, felt like she'd chosen love over her identity. This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Shrutinder Kaur, 35, who is from India and lives in Ontario. We lived on different sides of India but had a lot in common and became pen pals. We planned to enjoy our honeymoon period abroad and return to India , but ended up spending nearly four years in the US. Visa uncertainty made me realize the country didn't feel like home and that we'd rather resettle in Canada. Being flexible and adaptable helped me uproot my life from India to the US, and the US to Canada , which has become home to me. As the dependent on my husband's H-1B work visa visa , I had a H-4 dependent visa visa, which doesn't automatically come with work authorization. I'm ambitious and wanted to be financially independent, but at times felt stupid and wished I'd read more about the H-4 visa conditions or known that Arizona wouldn't recognize my degree.
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Shrutinder Kaur was 23 when she moved to the US, but she left for Canada roughly four years later. Courtesy of Shrutinder Kaur Shrutinder Kaur went to the US as the dependent on her husband's visa. She couldn't work on her visa, and at times, felt like she'd chosen love over her identity. Kaur and her husband moved to Canada in 2019 because they felt it would give them more stability. This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Shrutinder Kaur, 35, who is from India and lives in Ontario. The following has been edited for length and clarity. I met my husband online, but not on a dating app. In early 2014, I searched Facebook for the man my dad was trying to matchmake me with, but accidentally sent a friend request to my now-husband, who happened to have the same name. We lived on different sides of India but had a lot in common and became pen pals. Our parents met five months after we started talking, and we were married a month later. Not long after our engagement, my husband
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